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3 Biggest Mistakes People Make When Getting Divorced

April 23, 2020 by Lynn

No two divorces are the same. Each one has unique circumstances that cause each couple to end in divorce. Because of this, there is no one right way to go about a divorce. There are all sorts of variables that can throw people for a loop and cause them to make mistakes.

Unfortunately, some of these mistakes can lead to serious problems down the road. It’s in your best interest to learn from others’ mistakes so that you can avoid them yourself. Here are some of the biggest mistakes to look out for if you’re going through a divorce yourself.

Failing To Hire The Right Lawyer

 

Many couples make the mistake of believing that they don’t need a lawyer to help them through the process of divorce, or it doesn’t matter who they hire. However, the truth is that even if you plan on divorcing amicably, a good lawyer is necessary to help you navigate the ins and outs of the process.

Hiring the right attorney for the job can completely change your experience of divorce. It’s not necessary to hire the most expensive attorney out there; however, you should hire one that specializes in family law and has your best interests in mind. Hire an attorney because you know that they’re the right person for the job. Don’t hire an attorney based on price alone.

 

Taking Unsolicited Legal Advice

 

During the divorce process, you’ll hear all sorts of advice coming from friends and family. Perhaps they have a friend who did things one way or they think that things should be carried out another way. However, it’s important that you listen to your lawyer first and foremost. Don’t take legal advice from people who are not professionals. Even though friends and family may be well-meaning when they give you advice, unless they’re a professional, it’s only hearsay.

 

Allowing Anger To Be Your Guiding Force

 

Divorce is incredibly emotional, whether it was your choice to divorce or not. It’s easy to let your feelings get the best of you, and in many cases, allow anger to be your guiding force.

Litigation can bring out the worst in people, and lead you to take actions based on revenge. However, all this will do is hurt you in the end, particularly if you have children. The longer that you drag out a divorce, the more money and energy it will cost you.

Rather than allowing anger to be what guides you, focus on resolution and moving on in your life. Think about what it is that you ultimately want to accomplish and focus on that rather than shortsighted ambitions of revenge. Focus on the right details rather than the petty ones.

 

 

 

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