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David Turlington – How To Give Yourself The Best Chance of Getting Child Custody

March 20, 2018 by Lynn

Divorces can be very messy situations to find yourself in, especially when there are children involved. Unfortunately for many, the pain of separating from a loved one is trumped by the frustration and the pain which is caused through a custody battle for the child. In most cases the preferred option is of course to come to an amicable agreement about who will care for the child predominantly, with a schedule in place for the other parent to have regular contact with the child. As my good friend and lawyer David Turlington regularly tells me however, this kind of agreement is a rarity, and most cases are settled by a judge.

If you are currently going through a custody battle, here are some tips that will give you the best chance of winning.

Lawyer Up

There is no obligation on your part to contract the help of a lawyer for child custody battles, but it is something that is strongly advised. Lawyers will be able to offer you vitally important advice and guidance on how to proceed with the case, as well as being able to support you through this difficult time.

Understanding Laws

With the help of your lawyer, you will need to have a comprehensive understanding of child laws in your state. The reasoning behind this is simple, the more that you know and understand, the more methods by which you will have to approach the custody battle.

No Mudslinging

If you honestly believe that the other parent would not be very good at being the sole carer for your child, or that staying with them could be a risk, there are ways in which you can present this with your lawyer, to simply show the facts. One thing which you absolutely must avoid doing, is engage in mudslinging with your estranged partner. The reason behind this is that if you start tossing accusations and insults, you could end up appearing every bit as bad as the person you are trying to show as a poor parent. Present facts, not outbursts.

Document Accurately

There is a huge number of forms and documents which must be filled out when you apply for custody of your child, and it is absolutely imperative that you fill these out with accuracy. even if you believe in your heart that you would be the best parent to look after your child, the judge will base his or her decision on cold hard facts, and nothing else. If therefore you have embellished any information on the forms, or made errors, this could be something which blows holes in your case. Don’t try to lie or enhance any of your answers, make sure that you complete the documents accurately, otherwise it could very well be your undoing.

The idea that mothers always win custody of the child is not strictly true, and this means that whether you are the mother or the father, you must do all that you can to win your case.

Filed Under: Kid Things, Mommy Blog

Walter J. Viola – A Healthy Way to Deal with Toxic and Negative People

March 20, 2018 by Lynn

Constantly being around negative talk, toxic people, and unhealthy environments can lead to arrange a physical and emotional health issues. On the physical side you can find yourself with all sorts of intestinal of stomach disorders, headaches, and even pains.

On the emotional side you can experience anxiety attacks, loss of appetite and even develop neuroses that are directly related to how you spend your day. If you don’t change your situation and the people you are around these issues can develop into debilitating illnesses that can cause you permanent injury or worse.

For those of us who have high stress work environment like Walter J Viola whose job as CEO of Vantage Consulting is demanding and unpredictable, concerns about managing negative situations and people are very high and the need for tools and strategies to cope with and even turn around these situations is constant.

How can we avoid these negative consequences from happening and even turn them into positive situations where you are happy. Here are a few things that you can do always keeping positive and to make your life a happy one.

Create a zone of happiness around yourself

Your job may not allow you to avoid phony people who spread toxic rhetoric and the not the type of people you would choose be around. But what you can do is o surround yourself either literally or virtually with positive people that are supportive of your needs and feelings. You can ask close friends at work or way from work to be available to give you positive and uplifting support when you need it. You can call or text them and let them know that you need a few minutes of your time for them to provide you a boost. The key is to have several in case one is busy during your time of need. You can then call someone else in your zone of happiness to give you the lift. You should also offer to be in a zone of happiness for each of the people who are in your zone of happiness.

Learn to meditate

Most people think that meditation requires you to sit in a funny position on the floor with your shoes off, incense burning, and Eastern music playing in the background. The reality is that those meditate know that you can meditate anywhere and at any time. Meditation is simply the skill of being able to relax and attach your mind from stressful and negative situations. There are many forms of meditation but they all work for the same goal. Being able to meditate will allow you to sit in a meeting with a group of negative and toxic people and remain as calm as if you were on the beach. Learning meditation is a process that will take time, but you can quickly get good at it and it will stay with you for the rest of your life.

The first line of defense for yourself is to avoid toxic, phony, and negative people. This includes anyone who is a fraud or who constantly engages in illegal activities. These people take your energy and cause you to look at life in a negative light. So in addition to following the tips in this article, do all you can to eliminate these people from your life. This will be very important step for your happiness.

Filed Under: Life Hacks

BonWorth Discusses All There Is To Know About Women’s Clothing

March 20, 2018 by Lynn

Men never seem to understand why it takes a woman so long to get dressed. But they also marvel with love at how amazing women look when they are finally are ready. All women are beautiful, inside and out. BonWorth, the most famous mother daughter clothing store in the nation, helps women to achieve this inner and outer beauty.

All about BonWorth

BonWroth prides itself on being a store that is relevant to every woman and their mothers and daughters. They have strong morals and ethics, believing that clothes should be of the highest possible quality, while remaining affordable at the same time. This unwavering commitment to fantastic products and prices is something driven forward by the company’s COO Gurumoorthy Gurusankar. And it seems that this is paying off. BonWorth has received thousands upon thousands of positive, five star reviews across a range of platforms. Not just that, however, but a fair share of those reviews is left by employees who want to share just how much they enjoy working for the company. So what is it that they have gotten so right?

The BonWorth Understanding of Women’s Clothing

Women have always been and likely will always be interested in clothes. Major fashion brands are coveted, but unattainable for most. Yet, women want what is best for them and this is reflected in significant growth in the textile industry. Companies like BonWorth understand the importance of having high quality, beautiful, seasonally appropriate textiles, while at the same time offering these at a price that the average woman can afford. While they, like many others, will look at what the major fashion houses offer, BonWorth prides itself on being different as well. For instance, they change their collection far more regularly than other fashion empires, while at the same time ensuring that customer favorites are always in stock, regardless of the season.

Today, women also want to have the convenience of being able to shop they way they want to. Again, BonWorth has responded by having not just a range of high street stores that women can attend, but also an online store. This ensures that women can look for the things that they like at a time that is convenient to them, instead of having to work around the opening hours of a store. With excellent customer service and easy returns policies, shopping online is now easier than ever.

What BonWorth understands is that there are multiple things that attract a woman, which includes the design, the fabric, the brand, and the price. Those things put together form an individual style, because woman all like different things as well. Comfort is absolutely vital and what feels comfortable on one person does not feel comfortable on another. This is how it remains possible for women to develop their own unique style, even if they all shop at BonWorth and essentially purchase the same things. It really is easy to see why this company has received so many positive reviews.

Filed Under: Mommy Blog

2018 Trends in Interior Design

March 20, 2018 by Lynn

Each new year comes with an exciting array of interior design ideas and 2018 is no exception. This year brings new style trends for everyone to enjoy. Gary G Friedman believes we’re seeing a blend of new looks coming into shape and a few old aesthetics coming back into the scene. From patterned ceiling décor to confident and assertive wallpapers, several interior design trends seem to stand out. So far, 2018 looks be a year of color, experimentation and thinking outside the box.

Statement Ceilings

Statement ceilings have become a growing trend this year. Gone are the days when the ceiling was just a wall to ignore or tone down. Instead, people are embracing this new trend by incorporating bold designs using textured or printed wallpaper, exposed beams, timber moldings or striking paint colors.

The Wallpaper Trend

Wallpaper is taking on a greater role as a work of art. From simple stripes to a botanical garden on the wall, wallpaper provides a great way to incorporate design and add texture to a wall. People are feeling braver with wallpaper than ever before. Rather than just paper feature walls, homeowners are taking the bold step to paper all four walls. The most recent techniques in printed vinyl are allowing the making of high quality, beautiful and strikingly detailed wallpapers. There’s also an increased acceptance of darker colors that exude confidence and assertiveness.

Mixing Finishes

Combining different elements and materials of interior design creates a more artistic feel and sophisticated look. Layering natural and painted woods, bare iron and stone with touches of metal is gaining popularity. Mixing different types of woods and blending pieces from different eras and styles without letting any theme or style dominate is the secret to success in mixing different materials for a harmonious feel.

Metals

Metals are again a force to reckon with in 2018. Copper lamps and accessories have served their time and silver is taking over as the new trend. Silver has the unique ability to add a cool yet elegant charm to interior décor. Picture frames, lamps and other accessories with the look of silver create a sense of class, especially when combined with other metallic shades or rich fabrics.

Materials with Purpose

2017 saw a wide array of sophisticated recycled materials emerge and take center stage in interior design. Interior tiles made from corn husks, leather alternatives made from pineapple leaves and furniture made entirely from cans are just but to mention a few. 2018 is an even more exciting year for design and materials. We are going to see a rise in materials being made with purpose. There’s a clear shift towards a design approach that considers our carbon footprint and society in a much more positive way.

Comfort

Overall, we’re leaning towards design that is more casual and focused on experience. The boundaries between work and leisure are getting blurrier. If you feel overwhelmed by making these choices yourself, you can look into an interior designer as well. This trend is reflected in furniture and surface finishes with fabrics such as velvet growing in popularity in 2018. Leisure-based designs such as those in restaurants and hospitals are finding their way into different sectors, from retail to office, fashion and beyond.

Filed Under: Design

5 Invaluable Home Remodelling Tips

March 20, 2018 by Lynn

 If you have plans to remodel your home in the near future,CBI Tulsa has ideas to discover 5 invaluable home remodeling tips.

 5 Invaluable Home Remodelling Tips:

 1. Make sure to pack away all of your valuable items, before you start work on remodeling your home

 It’s well worth placing expensive items such as a grand piano, artwork and furniture into a safe storage unit until work has been completed on your home. As the last thing you want is for your builders to accidentally damage items which have a high monetary value or which hold sentimental value to members of your household.

 2. Make sure to include a completion date in your contract

 Unfortunately, many contractors and builders fail to complete jobs on time, which is inexcusable as when you pay for a service, you should demand a high level of service and professionalism. So if you want to increase your chances of your job being completed on time, to a high standard, it’s well worth including a completion date in your contract with your remodelers.

 You may even want to consider negotiating terms where your contractors are forced to give you a 10% discount, for every week which they run late. Just make sure to choose a realistic completion date, which both you and your chosen contractors are happy with. As there’s no point choosing a completion date, which your contractors will struggle to realistically meet.

 3. Set up a makeshift kitchen, which is located far away from the hustle and bustle of any construction which may be going on

 If you fail to set up a makeshift kitchen, you’ll soon grow tired of consuming takeout on a daily basis or having to rely on the generosity of your family and friends, in order to prepare your daily meals. What types of appliances do you need in order to create a functional makeshift kitchen? It’s well worth setting up a mini fridge, a microwave oven, and a jug, in order to be able to prepare a wide array of scrumptious dishes, without having to set foot in your everyday kitchen!

 4. Show your remodeling team sketches or photos of the type of work you’d like completed

 While you can opt to try and explain exactly what you’d like done to your house, it’s well worth helping out your chosen construction team by showing them sketches or photos of the type of work you’d like completed. As many individuals work best if they are given visual aids to work with as sometimes its hard to conceptualize words alone.

 5. Consider tearing down some of your house’s walls

 One way to completely makeover your home is to tear down some of the walls, in order to make your home feel more spacious. As an example, if there is a wall between your kitchen and dining room or your dining room and your lounge, it’s well worth tearing down your wall, in order to create an inviting indoor-outdoor flow.

 If you plan on completing a remodel of your home in the near future, simply refer back to this handy guide for invaluable advice, which will make remodeling your home a breeze.

 

 

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