I never in a million years thought imagined I would be writing a post like this.
I picked my 3 (almost 4) year old up from school today.
It’s just a normal day like any other.
Her teacher tells me that C is allowing other kids to touch her. It’s unintentional, harmless play BUT she is allowing it in her pants.
She said she spoke to C about not letting her friends do that. And C is just so nice, she says it’s okay.
IT’S NOT OKAY!
My stomach hurts writing this.
I decided to wait till we got home, so both of us could talk to her together.
I asked her what happened today. Who was touching her. Where? Why? Who? When? Where?
First, she tells us that they were giving her hugs.
Okay, no big deal…
She tells me that a boy in her class touched her underwear.
WHAT THE FUCK?????????????????
I asked her to show me how. She does.
I think I am going to throw up.
This is not the first time we have talked to her about touching. We tell her ALL THE TIME that NO ONE touches her down there.
How could this happen?
Why did no one see it?
I’m still in shock.
I’m trying not to be angry at her.
I’m angry. I’m sad.
What do we do now?